Oh! Today i am getting so much emotion I think, as I am getting an experience of all these posts & when I overcome these difficulties i understand some points on it. I have to explain it in sympathy vs empathy _pranitadeshpande
Sympathy, I think this word has been vanishing in today’s culture as everyone becoming a too much professional person. & have to become.
Go inside ask yourself this question ‘Is I need this word today anywhere? Is it good to use at a particular time? or just have to give preference to my work or his life who need sympathy?Maybe some persons are very strong they didn’t like sympathy. If we will angry to the small kid & after some time we are giving him sympathy he refuses it, instead of it he became powerful & telling to his /her mother .don’t touch to my body, don’t come near to me.
But in some cases when we are treating to the serious patient or mental disorder patient if we will give him sympathy he will become weak [in mental disorder case] & attract another mental disorder.
I saw this type of patient one lady is there she didn’t have any physical problem but she is showing to the family members that i have lots of diseases, & every time she is telling , i have pain here , i will fell down, catch me immediately & if we will not catch her she falls down. A total family has disturbed due to her EMOTIONAL
She has shown to the biggest psychologist in the Poona, lots of healing treatment also running for her but nothing change. In like this problems can we have to use sympathy? If we will use sympathy then have a problem & not use then also have a problem.
In today’s period in olden age, people have this problem in every home. Then there is a question can we use sympathy or not?