What’s issue to stop Rapes? How do we stop it?
Just now I saw the heading in a newspaper about girl rape/ women rape/Martial Rape etc.Do you know what is the Indian some man’s tendency? The thing which is getting early, easily available to me is my property. No one can control it. This is the thinking of Indian people & so these questions are creating in our society. This question is not for in case of rapist only but to all persons who are watching porn.If I am getting any property easily in my hand then there is no need to work on it.I can do my work without any thinking or doing any type of work. Maybe I am playing with anyone’s emotions or feelings. I didn’t care about it. I think so many ladies also involved in it.It’s everyone’s life privacy I didn’t want to talk about it.But only I want to explain that how porn is harmful to our life as well as next generation.
Porn encouraging emotions as like catalyst & so instantly hormones are creating & the people can’t control it.It makes any man Demon.At that time any person losing all control means even he didn’t keep in mind that we are human beings.He behaves as like animal.It’s very difficult to stop like this event as it understand us after happened.
Neil Malamuth answered in NYTimes about it.
Somehow this problem will control by good education but still, we can’t keep complete faith on any man.So keeping distance in the man women is the best answer for it.
Sherry Hamby, editor of the journal Psychology of Violence. Has search some answers on it.
In last month I was in Bombay & just I want to see my some photos. So I took mobile of my relative’s married son & start to watch photos. It was night 10 o’’ clock. When I was searching all photos I got lots of pornography photos as well as some videos. I can’t believe it, as he is married for 15 years & has beautiful, educated, mature wife. He is totally spiritual. Every time he is discussing with me on high-level subjects as well as on spirituality also. This is the first case.
Another case was last year also I saw mobile phone of my tuition student, in his mobile also I saw lots of sex videos, like this I saw 4 to5 mobiles.I saw it on google timeline as well as so many profiles also filled with it. The even new couple also. Parents are doing lots of expenditure for their marriage. Not for watching pornography. But still, the new married couple also keeping it on their mobiles. Then I guess that today porn is motivation for sex.
Today married& unmarried everyone is addicted to it.So many can’t do sex without watching it. Really I astonished with it when we have married or our parents or grandparents get married did they have porn to encourage or motivate to sex.?
When I am thinking about motivation & went on thinking about the past, is Shivaji Maharaj has done any motivation class?Shambhu Raje has written valuable book ‘’Budhbhushan ‘’ everyone will inspire with this book, have done any motivation class? If we will do lots of, Motivation class & decide to write ‘’Meghdoot’’’can we write it? Is he has done any motivational class? Or have they attended any seminar? I think these are natural process it can happen automatically but we are pressuring to our mind.Why did we are pressuring to our mind.?After all, I am not opposed to the motivation class or not telling that motivation class is not good for us.
Now turn to porn, where has gone our natural energy to do sex. Really we are reducing our natural energy. Have you seen animal watching porn? But they are doing sex happily, after all, we are human why not naturally?.
In ‘’Shivleelamrut ‘’ holy book of Indian, they have described some rules for sex,if you want sex happily.
If we are doing sex by watching pornography now then what will our grandson do? They will totally hate the sex or they will lose totally life’s interest. As they are watching porn since childhood. Everything they are knowing in childhood & early maturity killing everything that is creativity, life’s interest etc.He never keeps respect with elder people.As his
mind asking him question our father is stopping to watch us this program & they are watching it secretly.
Notes on Being Teenage Paperback – Import, 9 Jun 2016
Antonia Abbey, a social psychologist at Wayne State University says all rapiests are giving blame to others .
Everyone should learn this chapter carefully. Am I am going in a right way?.Am I am keeping my energy with me.?
Where am I losing my natural attraction?
The recent work of Kevin Swartout, a professor of psychology and public health at Georgia State University, suggests that low-frequency offenders are more common on college campuses than previously thought.
Am I losing my natural attraction with material things? Or to live Alishan life for material things. Where has gone our natural attraction? Means if I am losing my natural thing then everything natural I will lose after some days.